5 Regrets brides have on their wedding day… {continued}
#2 Drinking Too Much Alcohol
Here’s Part 2 of “5 common regrets brides have on their wedding day”. Number 2 on the list - Drinking Too Much Alcohol
Let's face it, you’ve been stressing, planning and anticipating this day for a long time. It’s only natural that you would want to have a few drinks to celebrate that your wedding day has finally arrived. This will be one of the most important days in you and your spouse’s life together. A day filled with joy, love and celebration with friends and family. However, it’s a long day and if you aren’t deliberate in moderating your alcohol intake, things can escalate quickly into being an unforgettable day for the wrong reasons. Here’s some reasons to keep drinking to a minimum:
You want to remember every moment.
There will be so many memorable moments on your wedding day and you will want to remember all the details of every one; getting ready with your friends and family, the ceremony, vows, first dance, cake cutting and toasts. Alcohol can affect memory and the last thing you want is to have hazy recollections of the day. You will want to be completely present in each and every moment and detail.
Avoid unwanted embarrassment.
Weddings are often recorded by professional videographers and guests with smartphones. Too much alcohol can lead to behavior you might regret later. We’ve seen a few times where over-drinking has lead to awkward moments, for example, slurred speeches, stumbling on the dance floor or not cooperating during photos.
The risk of an emotional rollercoaster.
Weddings are an emotional day all on their own, and alcohol can amplify feelings. Too much alcohol can lead to crying, being overly sentimental or even irritability. Small disagreements or stressful situations (like weather or logistical hiccups) can seem much worse if you’ve been drinking. By limiting your alcohol intake you can keep your emotions in check.
Ensuring smooth logistics.
Weddings involve tight schedules and coordination with vendors. Alcohol can slow down your response times and lead to misunderstandings or forgotten tasks. Your ability to manage the flow of the day is crucial. Vendors will check in with you throughout the day and evening so clear decision making abilities is key.
You don’t want to get sick.
Drinking too much can upset your stomach, headaches, vomiting, and overall discomfort. Do we need to say more? :)
Keeping your guests comfortable.
Guests look to the bride and groom to set the tone for the evening. Overindulging in alcohol can create an atmosphere that encourages others to drink too much as well. Weddings are also usually attended by children and older family members who may not appreciate excessive drinking.
Safety first.
Drinking too much can lead to accidents, injury or risky behavior. Excessive alcohol consumption increases the chance of someone getting hurt. Don’t forget to plan ahead for transportation for your guests, such as shuttle services, so that all guests get home safely.
A better morning after.
Weddings usually have activities the following day, including brunches, farewells with friends and family and potentially an early morning flight for your honeymoon. Brutal hangovers are never fun, but especially miserable if you have plans the following day.
HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO AVOID DRINKING TOO MUCH ON YOUR WEDDING DAY:
Try setting a personal drink limit, like one drink per hour or only doing mimosas and the champagne toast.
Designate someone you trust to help pace your drinks, like a maid of honor, best man, or even the bartender.
Stay hydrated throughout the day, and eat regularly to keep your energy and mood stable.
Alternate alcoholic drinks with water, and make sure to eat throughout the day, not just during the reception.
Suggest waiting until after the reception to relax with a drink in private as a couple, away from the crowd.
Keep the next day in mind. Drinking in moderation means you’ll feel good and enjoy the first day of married life instead of spending it nursing a headache.
Offer plenty of non-alcoholic drink options and consider having fun mocktails available so guests feel included without feeling pressured to drink alcohol.
Focus on making genuine connections with guests and taking in the experience fully, rather than relying on alcohol to enhance the celebration.
It’s perfectly fine to enjoy a few drinks on your wedding day, but moderation is the key to ensuring everything runs smoothly.
Next up … No. 3 Not having a videographer.
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